Reclaim Your Childlike Wonder
- Jim LaDoux
- May 31
- 3 min read

When Did We Stop Being Amazed?
At some point along the way, most of us traded curiosity for certainty…
playfulness for productivity… wonder for efficiency. We grew up. But what if growing up didn’t mean letting go of wonder? What if it meant reclaiming it—with intention?
It's time to consider a new way of seeing the world that many of us have lost: a childlike perspective filled with curiosity, imagination, and awe. And perhaps more importantly, it reminds us that this way of seeing isn’t childish—it’s essential.
The Quiet Loss of Wonder
Children experience the world differently. They ask endless questions. They notice small details. They imagine possibilities where adults see limitations. As one insight suggests, childlike wonder is rooted in curiosity and openness—the ability to see things freshly and question everything.
But over time, life trains us to:
Seek answers quickly rather than explore questions
Prioritize efficiency over exploration
Avoid risk instead of embracing discovery
We become more “certain”… but less alive.
Why Wonder Matters More Than You Think
Reclaiming childlike wonder isn’t about nostalgia—it’s about transformation. Wonder:
fuels creativity, deepens relationships, enhances spiritual awareness and expands our sense of possibility. When we approach life with curiosity, we begin to see differently. As one reflection puts it, people who cultivate wonder “seek to see things and people from new perspectives” and move beyond default thinking. In other words, wonder helps us break out of autopilot.
Three Barriers That Steal Our Wonder
1 | Over-Certainty. We stop asking questions because we think we already know the answers.
2 | Busyness. A packed schedule leaves no space for awe, reflection, or curiosity.
3. Fear of Looking Foolish. Children experiment freely. Adults hesitate, worried about being wrong.
5 PRACTICES TO RECLAIM YOUR WONDER
1. Ask Better Questions
Instead of rushing to conclusions, pause and ask:
What am I missing?
What else could be true?
What might this look like from another perspective?
Curiosity reopens the door to discovery.
2. Slow Down and Notice
Wonder lives in the details:
A conversation
A sunset
A moment of silence
When you slow down, the ordinary becomes extraordinary.
3. Re-engage Your Imagination
Children imagine freely. Adults edit themselves. Try:
Brainstorming without judgment
Dreaming about possibilities
Exploring “what if?” scenarios
Creativity thrives where imagination is allowed to play.
4. Embrace Beginner’s Mind
Approach familiar situations as if you’re seeing them for the first time. This mindset:
Reduces assumptions
Increases openness
Sparks new insights
5. Create Space for Play
Play is not a distraction—it’s a pathway. Whether it’s:
Trying something new
Laughing more
Engaging in creative hobbies
Play reconnects you to joy and wonder.
THE SPIRITUAL DIMMENSION OF WONDER
For many, reclaiming wonder is also a spiritual journey. Wonder invites us to:
See the sacred in everyday moments
Remain open to mystery
Trust that not everything needs to be explained
It shifts us from control to curiosity… from certainty to awe.
LIVING AS THE PERSON YOU'RE BECOMING
Reclaiming childlike wonder isn’t about going backward—it’s about becoming more fully alive. It’s choosing:
Curiosity over certainty
Presence over distraction
Possibility over limitation
It’s living as someone who still believes there is more to discover.
CLOSING THOUGHTS
What if the goal isn’t to have everything figured out… but to stay curious enough to keep exploring? Where in your life have you lost your sense of wonder—and what would it look like to reclaim it today?
QUESTIONS | APPLICATIONS
What would being more curious look like in your daily/weekly routine?
When and where do you experience awe and wonder?
Where do you experience the sacred in your daily life?
When do you operate on "autopilot" and fail to be present or spontaneous?
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